I have been asked by many of you for my New Year message and so here it is – it is always the same, as my beliefs around personal development remain steadfast! I believe that we own nothing in this life but our story. Property comes and goes, so does business, people, money and possessions but our story is ours for keeps and we are 100% responsible for whether it becomes a best seller or not.
Although I am bored of all the emails telling me how I can be more successful if I just buy this book or do this course I am a tad partial to a bit of reflection, something I feel we need to do more of at this time of year, so I simply ask myself 3 little questions about the year past and I challenge you to do the same ….
Did I love?
Did I Live?
Did I matter?
Did I love? Did I open my heart to those that matter? Did I give people the benefit of the doubt even if they did not deserve it? Did I try not to judge people, did I stay in a state of gratitude, did I give to others less fortunate than I, did I accept my emotional self and embrace my vulnerability?
If you asked people if they could live their life again, having less regrets, would feature in their top three every time. This leads us to question two, Did I live? Did I step beyond my comfort zone and feel some fear, or did I simply stay safe and cruise along? Did I challenge myself, did I take any risks, did I have to manage failure as a result of this, did I learn and grow and add some amazing chapters to my story? Life begins at the end of your comfort zone, anything less is mediocre and if you are not failing you are NOT living!
And finally, Did I matter? What I mean here is, did I make a difference, would anyone know I was here? Did I leave any footprints anywhere, atall in 12 months? Did I help anyone? Influence anyone or anything? Did I change a life? A law? A relationship? A business? A community? A story? Did I improve something or someone? Am I living in my passion with passion? Buddha says ‘Your job here, is to discover your job, then dedicate your life to it.’ So how ‘s that working for ya? What are you dedicating your life to?
If you make one New Year’s Resolution this year and I know you will…… accept the challenge to discover your passion, life is too short to waste your time and energy on anything less that what you came here to do. If you have no idea what this is and well over 80% of the working population do not, invest in you and get off the roller coaster, called life for as many hours as it takes to do some soul searching to find out! Read some books, get a coach, find an inspirational peer group like a posse of Divas http://www.wellheeleddivas.com/what-is-a-diva-powerteam/ or find a mentor
Start your journey of self discovery – it is so worth it and so are you!